A loner is a person who avoids or does not actively seek human interaction. There are many reasons for solitude, intentional or otherwise. Intentional reasons include being introverted, and spiritual, mystic, or religious considerations[1][2] or personal philosophies. Unintentional reasons involve being highly sensitive, extremely shy, past trauma or events, or having various mental disorders.
The modern term "loner" can be used with a negative connotation[3] in the belief that human beings are social creatures and those that do not participate are deviant.[4][5] Being a loner is sometimes depicted culturally as a positive personality trait, as indicative of being independent and responsible.[6]
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I enjoy being a loner. I never feel shameful of myself for having no friend at all NOW!
孤独
孤是自成世界的一种独处，孤独是一种完整的状态，所以，孤独者是自成世界、自成体系，表现出一种“圆融”的高贵，他们没有一个缺失的遗憾。孤独并非是在自己心情压抑，或者是失恋的时候出现的，那种感觉只是空虚和寂寞，称不上是孤独。孤独是一种状态，一种圆融的状态，孤独者都是思想者，并非是受到情欲诱惑责任束缚的那个别人眼中的人，那个自己展现给外界的人，当一个人孤独的时候，他的思想是自由的，是一种可以宽纳一切的精神状态。他面对的是真正的自己，人类的一切思想都源于此处。他大多数的时间都在观察、学习出现的各种客观事物，并且能够从中得到无限的刺激和快乐。孤独是灵魂的放射，理性的落寞，也是思想的高度，人生的境界。它没有声音却有思想，没有外延却有内涵，孤独是一种深刻的诠释，是不能替代的美丽。能从忙碌中解脱劳顿，能在静夜里独对心灵，能在晨曦时思考未来，那是一种无法表达的玄妙。孤独者，不管他处于什么样的环境他都能让自己安静并且自得其乐，哪怕他面对的是生与死。
（摘自网上)
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