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助孕的过程 Fertility

1) 3哩的Helen Ngu Surgery and clinic for women: http://my.wowcity.com/kuching/gpid/109312685265487660040/helen-ngu-surgery-and-clinic-f.htm Consultation fees plus medication is around RM300-400 per visit. September  RM140++ :Blood test at Gribbles RM840     :Antibiotic, Scan, Fertility drugs, Pap Smear, Consultation November RM210     : Vaginal scan and Consultation First treatment month, day 13-16 urine test present all negative result, meaning I have no positive result whereby I can have sex that night with my husband which ovulation occur. No eggs or ovulation occur is found through vaginal scanning at day 17, morning. Arrange for day 22 to do blood test to check if I have ovulated this month or not. The doctor suggests increase dosage or injection method of RM180 per dos for 5-6 dos in a month, not of others too expensive method on early trial. Canceled the appointment. 2) Sarawak General Hospital (Klinik Sakit Puan) Tel :082-276512...

Unaco 姜&拉子姜

Unaco 姜 拉子姜 我的妈妈说Unaco 姜比较不会辣,反而拉子姜很辣。适合用来煮食给坐月子的女人。但,我偶尔煮肉类也会用这种拉子姜。

Blood test

Blood test could be done at several places such as Gnosis and etc at RM100++. My blood type is O. So does my daughter. My mother's blood type is B.

Beach Resort in Kuching

1) Santubong 2) Damai Beach 3) Damai Puri Last been to Damai Puri is the night after our wedding dinner. Since I was 6 months pregnant, so our honeymoon trip to Hong Kong was postponed.

Brand 名牌

喜欢的女性名牌Diesel, Pierre Cardin, Padini Authentic, Body Glove, Esprit, Emilio Valentino, SOS, Nicole, Forest Timber, lady purse, perfumes Dior and etc. 蛤蟆公基于身份曾经用有很多地皮等,假的有钱人,没有实际的钱,因此他的儿子很妒忌我拥有名牌,即使是我自己的,他的爸爸过的是穷人的生活,孩子长大后,都是靠日薪维持生计。那是一般人或者他的儿子会了解的名牌物,尤其开始做工后。对于剖腹产,因为在私人医院生产,也是属于名牌。因此,因为没有人像我,他们的妻子都选择在中央医院生产等,因此因为不了解而产生的妒忌,都很伤害我。因此,我希望任何人的存在都对彼此影响不大,即是没有存在过,因此没有任何的影响,与分财产有关,没有分到的就是没有,像没有我这个人一样,促使我是独生女的身份。 我特别爱看恐怖片,惊捒片,爱情片,文艺片,卡通片等,尤其ppstv。2006年时喜欢看的影片是www.crunchyroll.com 的网站的。 结婚后,不敢看鬼戏,一个人在家会害怕。曾经不相信这个世界上有鬼,后来意识到人比鬼更可怕。

夫妻之间的相处之道

吵架是无可避免的。一旦吵架了,就要找出解决的方法,注意不要一意味的旧事重提。 双方一定要好好的沟通,不要引起语言上的冲突。 凡事要忍耐,谦让,彼此适应,互相迁就及尊重。 大事化小,小事化无。不要小题大作,无中生有。 一旦吵架了,就把自己关在房间里。 吵架的次数越多次,越激烈,感情的裂痕就越来越大。不要到无法修补的地步,最终以离婚下场。离婚不是我现在想要的婚姻。 男人不该让女人流泪,更不该动手打女人。 我的老公结婚后,最严重的一次说我跟他吵架,泼辣的意思,那是我改过的泼辣,选择默默忍受及独自承受了10年,努力维持一段良好的感情,从选择永远不要吵架也不是一段感情里应该发生的事,因此,我选择了第1点的吵架方式,才愿意给我的感情里增加色彩。选择发言也是因为他对我的态度,吵架没有原因及解决方法,不断的发生,我怕第7点会发生。最终他沉不住气,他竟不顾我跟我的女儿的安危,忽然不断的说要寻死,加快hilux的速度,非常的激动,不曾听过的吓人声音,内容是我听不太懂的情绪性的话,但是现在总是说我后悔嫁给他,没有这回事,我怎样后悔,自己的条件不如别的有工作的女人,还有病,还最敏感的不孕问题,怎么还会有好的选择?我年轻时在生病的时候遇到的男人,怎样都比健康的时候遇到来得更珍惜,不会轻易,一转眼就跟别人一起。我很无奈,但没有告诉他。他还什么都敢说我及我的妈妈,反正我们的看法不一致。因此,我为了阻止他,我很出力的拍他的胸口,拳头也有,抓着他的左手,要他停止在马路上猛踩油,危险驾驶。因此,他的左手充满了抓伤楚楚可见的痕迹及伤口。我不知道自己太用力了,因为他太激动了! 他的力气很大不过不够利落只差一个机会下手而已,因为还有更快更利落更直接的手法。我只是一个女人,我必须保护我自己。我不明白为什么他可以那么冲动,平时很疼我的女儿,却在一时忽然生气做出那种如同谋杀全家的事,连坐在后座的女儿也吓哭了,他也不理会,她一直不停的哭喊。我于事后感到恐惧及害怕,觉得自己不认识自己的丈夫,并感到陌生。不是我吓坏了,当时我很镇定。但是确实是有一个纠缠着我要我不断的自讨没趣,亲自毁了自己的关系的冲动及感觉减少了,促使我改变。他依然不变,只要谈到与他们有关的事比如过年如何分红包,他就忽然生气,态度不好就骂人。所以,我就走开,没有再说或者以相同的语气因此这样会吵了起来。我有时也想过这一生人要跟这样莫名婚前...

Vaccine at government clinic

Ever since my daughter was born at Normah Hospital, she receive vaccine by Dr George at Normah hospital. The doctor suggested we can have her vaccine injection done at the government clinic too. At 1 Malaysia Clinic Tabuan, which was located near my mother's house provide a few early vaccine for my daughter. Almost half of the vaccine needed could be injected at the clinic. Since we move to our Samarahan new house, I was told by the nurse that I could no longer let my daughter receive vaccine at 1 Malaysia Clinic Tabuan. At Samarahan, the specify government clinic is Sebisak clinic situated at Muara Tuang, the junction of my mother's 2nd house. So, the rest of the vaccine injection were done there. We have to go there early before 8.30am because there were many people. It is different from 1 Malaysia Clinic Tabuan where you are free to go at any time, and you get your turn very fast. Another option at Samarahan here is Klinik Kesihatan Kota Samarahan.

Cabutan dari Daftar Kelahiran &My Kid

Images above is attached from google web, a My Kid card example. My daughter's ( EMILY SIAW YUN XIN ) Cabutan dari daftar Kelahiran and My Kid card was applied by her father. I keep the birth certificate with me right after application while my husband keep My Kid in his wallet. Now, these document are kept by me at my daughter's document file. I should have ask my husband to put the address of my mother's house address, whereby my daughter has been staying with me at my mother's Muara Tabuan home all the time before we move in to our new home in 2015. The correct and true address is supposed to be: 30H, Lot 487, Lorong Muara Tabuan 2A4A, Muara Tabuan, 93350 Kuching, Sarawak. I did not plan to change the address on the card due to several reason, like it has been newly applied 3 years ago or although changing address process is easy now but it might still seems troublesome or needless to do so to certain family. I truly hope that the addres...

Dental

1) Dr Kho Dental Surgery located at Tabuan Jaya Not only I went to this clinic, even my husband and my mother too been to this clinic. https://www.dentistsnearby.com/browse-by-treatment/general-dentistry/432-dr-kho-dental-surgery.html 2) Dr Then Dental located at Jalan Nanas I went to this clinic and recommended my husband to go. I do a Crown there cost about more or less RM1,000. https://www.dentistsnearby.com/browse-by-treatment/general-dentistry/1069-dr-then-dental-surgery.html Ever since I go for check up at Dr Kho, I no longer go to this clinic. 3) UTC I too have been to dental clinic at UTC building at the Kuching city area. My husband too did went for a check up at the government dental clinic.

砂劳越古晋的星洲日报

p/s photo attached from google web 我妈妈家的星洲日报 新生活报

Catholic Reception in 2016

St. Joseph Cathedral Catholic Church St. Joseph Cathedral Catholic Church I am accepted into the holy catholic church of St. Joseph Cathedral in 2016 after attending 1 year of night classes conducted by Paul Voon. That is also called classes for reception. I attend weekly mass with my husband and daughter during Saturday at 6-7pm before I was a recognize Catholic, and after I become a Catholic. 10th mile Siong Tau Methodist Church (10哩宣道堂) 10th mile Siong Tau Methodist Church (10哩宣道堂) I am baptised for application of Christian name, grace, as required by Jabatan Pendaftaran Negara, at 10th mile Siong Tau Methodist Church (10哩宣道堂) which is situated not far from my Muara Tuang house in 2004 by 陈牧师 after attending classes. I am not a good follower (I sin) as I hardly attend weekly mass. My mother too is not a Christian. 身为一个没有参加礼拜,没有祷告的信徒,我每天都不知不觉地活在在受罪的痛苦里。 old St John Church of more than 100 years in Kuala Lumpur old St John Church...

Emily's baptism at 4 months old

Emily's baptism ceremony Emily's baptism took place at St. Joseph Cathedral church when she is about 4 months old, right after me and my husband's honeymoon trip to Hong Kong just as planned. By the way, after traveling oversea 2 times to Thailand (Bangkok shopping paradise) and Hong Kong without following the tour (旅行团), the vacation turns out to be dull. So I suggest to my husband to follow a tour next time. When both of us come back from a postponed honey moon due to pregnancy, my husband is unaware that we are attending the Bahasa Melayu version of baptism month until we arrive together with my child's godmother and her family, and notice that almost all are Bumiputra participants. We should have gone to the English version baptism month instead. My daughter is then successfully baptize by Priest Felix. Naming of Catholic name of my daughter, Emily , is done by me from Catholic name web  printed out by my husband for me to select, while namin...