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助孕的过程 Fertility

1)3哩的Helen Ngu Surgery and clinic for women:http://my.wowcity.com/kuching/gpid/109312685265487660040/helen-ngu-surgery-and-clinic-f.htm

Consultation fees plus medication is around RM300-400 per visit.

September 
RM140++ :Blood test at Gribbles
RM840     :Antibiotic, Scan, Fertility drugs, Pap Smear, Consultation

November
RM210     : Vaginal scan and Consultation

First treatment month, day 13-16 urine test present all negative result, meaning I have no positive result whereby I can have sex that night with my husband which ovulation occur. No eggs or ovulation occur is found through vaginal scanning at day 17, morning. Arrange for day 22 to do blood test to check if I have ovulated this month or not. The doctor suggests increase dosage or injection method of RM180 per dos for 5-6 dos in a month, not of others too expensive method on early trial.

Canceled the appointment.

2)Sarawak General Hospital (Klinik Sakit Puan)
Tel :082-276512 
Face fertility problems?  Referral letter is required by Klinik 1 Malaysia. Cervical inflammatory problems too? Only RM5 is charged per normal visit or maybe other payment.

3) London Fertility Centre (Kch)
Contacts and address


4)Normah Hospital, clinic

I have seen Dr. Alvince with my husband after about 1/2 a year of trying to conceived. I told him too about my period problem. He says there is no medication for that, unless my period stopped. As long as there is period, that means the woman produces an egg, meaning I am fertile. He says should have sexual intercourse on day 16, or having sex often few times a week, even during period time. The consultation fee is around RM100++. He says that my husband should call first to ask for doctor's advise so needless to waste money going to the clinic and look for him in person.

So, I go back home and keep on trying every month from day 11-17, but there is no signs of pregnancy. I feel so desperate especially under Schizophrenia medication. I even think of giving up the medication for a period of time and tried to conceived again, even though I have done that for half a year earlier before with no signs of pregnancy. I planned to accept the fact that I can have only 1 child if I am unable to conceived throughout my lifetime. Not long after, by chance I think of Helen Ngu women's clinic and give the clinic a call. The nurse told me there were fertility drugs for women who are infertile, so I start to have hope in being able to conceived again thus seeking further treatment.

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Schizophrenia world

**I am lost, hope that god guide me on what should I do now. Maybe will consider change to London sooner or later. I am scared because this involves $ which is not cheap. Choose doctor based on previous success record, reputation and etc.


If I experienced miracle in life and got pregnant again, I think I want to have pre-natal scan at London, for hospital are of many woman getting pregnant naturally giving birth, discrimination might occur if group together, then give birth at Timberland with a letter of referral the better, to define indifferent and etc, giving myself a choice and new chance, not at Normah or Helen Ngu, even London which is due to laser machine at private hospital surely is bigger, better and safer. I don't know although I imagine my child's place of birth is London with pros (not being affected by other pregnant woman who conceived naturally) and cons (everyone think side way when seeing the place of birth column making me pique and awkward or they try to start a conversation). Hope no more meat bun at wound. Choose doctor based on experience in Cesarean and how many cases of conducting the laser machine.

Fertility treatment expose to risk of 多胞胎, miscarriage and low birth weight. Imagine 八胞胎, 衣食住行还可以,读本地大学就好了,不然放在KPJ的Baby hatch,孤儿院(是华人的话很多排队争着要,但是华人都很负责任的,因此很少会发生),卖掉,男的RM8000, 女的RM5000,不懂什么天价。哈。不知有没有慈善机构捐赠尿片,奶粉。答案是没有。每个礼拜如何外出,一个pramRM350, 要8个,桌子都不够坐,车我一辆老公一辆,换辆Advanza不是好。妈妈来家里照顾,长大了才一起外出。自己都不要出了,人家看到总是那边算几个。还有怕外出全家死,没有孩子了,有的放妈妈那里,换换出,开玩笑。过年买衣服,头都大。平常1个看到想要的东西,买给1个通通要,常常那样Oh my god!剖腹的话费用怎样算,多1个就加钱啊!god!没有做工天天玩,好玩!不会想念到爆!肚子满是cellulite也不要紧,屁股一样,涂bio-oil啦, 吃多多, 又煮又买又打包。理应该eat light and quantity,but要heavy and quantity好,因为想死了要再度怀孕!全部自己都要,不肯别人动,1个人霸占,动一下会被干扰,不再是独生女的感觉那样,会死。谁都可以动,像极了我的身体那样,不知道怎样说的good and bad,就是把快乐建立在我的痛苦上的不可以动。未成功,不快乐,不舒服,要喝1罐Apple cider beer及去全身及脚底按摩💆1个半小时,有时间的话要全身按摩2个小时再加上脚底按摩30-45分钟。抽烟会导致不育,喝酒不会,门口喝了才进去按摩💆。随便说的,哪里有八胞胎这么多,那么好命,其实,都要留在身边。

I feel so sad, baby don't go! I miss you! I need you!I feel so sad, baby don't go! I miss you! I need you!

Estimated fee: RM2000-3000 or more up to RM20,000++(best of all for 2 babies of 2 pregnancy, if lucky to have twins, triplets or more surely flee to heaven, if cannot afford turn to General Hospital instead and start all over again, serious health problems due to Schizophrenia might arise). The cash money is with me, batch by batch. My own cash of RM300++ given by my mother 200, from my savings 50, my last job salary 50 and 家佣 20? 买菜钱没有,就是savings,家佣存的一点$,也不用了,家佣就是了。is added into this amount, all money that I can think of for wanting to get pregnant involving money and doctor, not just sex. I don't like my money not knowing what condition am I in yet still others keep on eyeing for this is a sensitive issue in our family. I think it is not a good idea to bring so much cash, I prefer my husband pays by credit card if too big amount is involved at once. Now that my husband has to bring RM13,000 to London, thus he asked me to hand him RM1,000 of balance that he gave to me with balance of RM300++ in my hand. 

All medical fees and medicine related $ are kept inside a separated Thailand souvenir purse, especially for fertility is fold into halves and tied by a rubber band, including clinic consultation, and healing reflexology as well as more Apple Cider beer. This could resulted in isolation of the sick especially me from all and society forever, is what I want, not to be disturbed, for not wanting to be harmed. The souvenir is my husband got a packet for me while go traveling after work with colleagues, whereby involved in an accident while he took his turn to drive, for the bike come out of a sudden thus the car accident happened. Lastly the insurance of the rented car claims compensation from the insurance company even though the 4 of them all know that it is the bike's fault, but due to pity on him fearing that the poor man might not being able to pay for the damages done to the rented car, they cover up his wrongful act. In my opinion, it is not good to cheat insurance company's money, but an unwanted accident indeed effect the whole trip. What will you do if you are involved in a car accident while traveling oversea? Ithink you must be try hard to settle the incident as soon as possible so as to continue with your trip as planned. I have no idea for I am not involved in this accident. I no longer doing this for I keep the money in my wallet separated column.

Even my mother knows nothing of me trying to conceived again through fertility treatment. This is our family's secret.


平常都把排卵日等重要日子记录在手机的日历里,之前在日历里,尤其月经来潮的日子,以方便自己计算排卵日,就是第13-15天。其他的appointment也是如此,包括了fertility的过程及费用都有记录在手机的memo。


Why is that normah unable to give me advise on fertility issue and continue with fertility check up? London is more straight forward and systematic if compared to Helen Ngu. I think giving birth at a hospital instad of shoplots especially of C-section is a better solution. I did't know that the doctor conduct a C-section at other private hospital. I think he might be the one I am looking for.


Kl fertility center  shows videos of various treatment. Please click on this website for more information.

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