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Bullying

School bullying is a type of bullying that occurs in an educational setting.
Bullying without comprehensive definition, can be physical, sexual, verbal or emotional in nature. This can involve physical, emotional, verbal, and cyberbullying. For an act to be considered bullying it must meet certain criteria. This includes hostile intent, imbalance of power, repetition, distress, and provocation. Bullying can have a wide spectrum of effects on a student including anger, depression, stress and suicide. The person who is bullied is affected, and the bully can also grow up to develop different social disorders or have higher chances of engaging in criminal activity. If there is suspicion that a child is being bullied or is a bully, there are warning signs in their behavior. There are many programs and organizations worldwide which provide bullying prevention services or information on how to cope if a child has been bullied.

(adapted from Wikipedia)



  • Tell an adult or a teacher/lecturer if you are being bullied.
  •  Bullying includes confiscated goods.
  •  Plot the victim for goods or diminishing of goods
  • Stop bullying because: Do not try to bully back as this increases the power of the person who bullies you.
  • Do not turn into a bully
  • Feel being left out? alone?
  • 人多欺负人少?
  • Someone spreading rumours about you?
  • Verbal bullying causing emotional outburst






  • Be alert of school bullying. 
  • 你可以阻止悲剧的发生!
  • 死亡是可以避免的!
  • 不要等到太迟了 






  •  Pictures of those who are bullied to death via suicide
  • Cyberbullying
  • All sorts of bullying from everywhere, not only from school

  • Bullying cause an decrease in school performance
  • Bullying increase absentism


Anti-depressant medication
  • Can medicine and drugs help to relief symptoms of anxiety and depression resulted by bullying? (One of the health issue arise) 
  • Yes, of course.
  • Seek counseling help
Bullying take place in workplace with similar impact. This could due to being different in capabilities and ability. Discrimination, prejudice and bias arise. See also workplace diversity. Supplant among co-workers, often leads to social exclusion. Thus, elimination from a group can make you the odd man out.

Bullying is also social inequality. Firstly, the victim suffers from mental disorder, then experiencing drastic changes in life and lastly brutally murdered.

A victim of bully is no other like an inhuman seclusion of a sick person with mental disorder or beliefs of being possesed by evil spirit by his or her family, often with both hands. All kinds of money transaction among the victim and the bullies is prohibited as this could affect the victim which leads to crminal act in times. Can you imagine the dirty, skinny, naked and chainned person gives you food and affected and died before you are rope in law? That is why of nothing absolutely nothing occurs when life has no value. On the other hand, the bullies or the authority kills in order to cover up all the wrongdoings and crime. What should you do if you come across such situation by being a victim of bullying? In my opinion, this is done by using other people's money, where your source of money could not be track thus terminated. Better if don't stain your hands. Similar to giving out something to others not involving in charity because charity organization always mimic people of close-blood relation with you or the bullies else cold-blooded or merciless and in return they give back your money not to you but to the bullies. But this is an unknown swindler action yet solve the problems for the amount that matters if exceeds might cause poverty. So, stop bullying when you see this sign!

How to deal with bullies?
Here is a link to help. http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Bullies

  •  Walk AWAY
Link to definition of bully:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying

Link to stop bullying:
https://www.stopbullying.gov/what-is-bullying/index.html

Think of the effects of bullying to the victims, bystanders and bullies! Stop bullying. What can you do if your child are involved in bullying? Or become a victim of bullying? Or become a bystander?

The victim of bullying is often full of hatred, anger, disgust, depression, stressful, reconciled, indifferent and jealousy. One is no longer the same as the person or classmate that one know before, or the one seemingly from the same school, especially the one who got bullied in a school. These negative feelings emerge from time to time especially while being together uncontrollably. That is why isolation among others is required to prevent from unwanted harm and damages, because no matter what you do, there is not much changes. If isolation is applied, exposure seems visibly acceptable. This might be related to the big collision and great effect upon a victim resulted from bullying which could not be undone, and it occurs at all time. Complete isolation requires sacrifice of the victim, such as appear indifferently from the others, could be in incomplete or deform way. Hence, do not try to make further attempt again!

I believe that the school tries to cover up when bullying took place. Bullying has always been taking part in one's life from childhood. The impact of bullying could be obvious or not in either way, and is often surface trying to compensate afterwards through adopting a conciliatory attitude which is portraying revengeful. However, reconciliation seems to failed or turn into an policy of elimination one from it's nation or creating excuses to cause death in the victim. Bullying is a kind of behavior which brazenly or unconsciously destroys a person. How to come to an accommodation between the victim of the bullying and the bullies? If you were in other people's shoe, for all the bullies and bystanders, won't it be the best solution if the victim died via suicide, rather than all of them died one by one or in a tragic death like fire in the dorm. That is why everyone wants the victim dead!

Remember one should never convict a crime for being involve in criminal act should be rope in law and spend the remaining days in prison depending on the period of sentence.

This is a video that I watch from youtube years ago regarding the victim of bullying, What makes you different makes you beautiful.

Somehow I think a victim is often weak, higher risk in suicidal death, inferiority, low self-esteem, health problems arise and overall being affected of bullying by others. In many tragic incidents where death occurs, surrounded by the unfortunate deadly, creating a scene of bullying scenario, of being different perhaps? It seems risky and dangerous to perform, like a fire without light, whereby victims gain acknowledgement to live where she could never be one of them (the bullies), just like never going to become one of or among the fury of the dead. The bullies and others usually gone too far in oppressing the victim to die under pressure by the society. This could drive one into another type of bullying position recurring again and again by being with the dead, inviting them for they often unaware that they have become the dead, thus gain 'social status' in a person most likely the victim or also known as a survivor, rather than a victim cursing the bullies to be all dead alone for being highly aware that they want her dead, inducing more harm and damages. Tragic death survivor for example are mostly highly sensitive and aware of threats posses by their surroundings. This could further prevent death of the only survivor. Define yourself! However, a human more likely the victim should not be categorized as a deceased for one shall join the dead in an uncontrollable situation under the observation of an authority.

Sometimes death of another person or one person only seems to induce the acceptance of the victim towards the others, but in the end no solution seems to take place for reasons unknown, for maybe the bullies themselves are not to be punished or denial of being involving in bullying or unaware that they are bullies or even trying to escape from being guilty and unconscionable live. If the bullies are rope in law, the victim then shall be better off or in other words regain one's normal life. A bully should be responsible and condemned for all the bullying process for others should not be one's scapegoat. Best not to have human (debt of gratitude) or financial (not owing money) transaction between. He who murders pay the forfeit of his life, blood to be repaid. Demand a life for a life for an eye for an eye is enacting impossible for a victim, only give one her life and spare her life! Tangible proofs or evidence of bullying is victim might suffer from anxiety and depression or other health issue arise as well as other negative impact which is probation plena of verifiable fact. If possible, the bullies and the victim should never see each other again! Let the victim stand a chance to live upon seeking counseling help!

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