A full-time mother is a resigned working woman in the competitive outside world, often of glass ceiling, due to children, family or other personal reasons, with main requirement of not facing financial problem situation while being unemployed. I enjoyed being a full-time mother for almost 3 years now. My husband gives me money for food expenses (Stutong) on 24 every month, the day he got his pay.
I hardly do household chores when I was studying. So, I am the kind of a lazy bone. Since I become a housewife, I have to start to motivate myself to do household at our new home everyday, not just cooking and looking after my child only. I must train my daughter to cook, do household chores as well as being independent as early as the age of 7, or 13,14 to learn cooking.
Grace and BB of italic wordings: A housewife not only is a wife, also a mother, who is responsible in household related criteria such as below, for she received payment in term of cash money from her husband to do grocery and household shopping within her household. Social equality refers to fairness in the society, where by a husband deserved fair treatment by a wife in playing her role as a housewife.
Bullying can cause social inequality. Have you ever been in a situation where you are the only one who do the dish washing for the whole household or other similar situation? It is often a situation of many people of the same type bullying one person of the weak. Social inequality also occurs due to unfair treatment among women. This action should be discontinued where a male especially my husband shall not copy my action especially when there were no other female of same type for example another outsider like me exists. There is needless to think of me doing the right thing because taking me for granted and perform the same action like me as if there is no moral thoughts in mind other than mine. Moral value is important only to those who knows how to appreciate a traditional woman.
Social inequality of genders can also affect a woman, of unfairness related to a person's capability for example ability to bear a child.
How to clean the toilet?
Put on a pair of slippers. First, fill up a small pail of water with 1 tablespoon of washing detergent in powder foam like Biozip that I use because of the antibacterial agent. Then use a brush and dip it inside the pail to brush around the sink (every Sunday or once a week), toilet bowl, rim and so on. Brush every inches of the toilet bowl with soapy water. Then pour the remaining soapy water on the toilet floor and use a hard toilet broom to brush the toilet floor until clean. Clean every soapy area with clean water. Pour 1/2 tablespoon of Biozip into the toilet bowl and clean around it using a toilet bowl brush.
For more stubborn stains for example when your house have visitors during a party or Chinese New Year clean it with Harpic or Clorox instead. Continue doing this with the 2nd toilet or bathroom. Toilet are to be cleaned everyday. I have 2 bathroom and toilet combination at my house. One is inside master bedroom and another near the kitchen. It is yet to install water heater for my daughter bathing purpose while my mother bathes using cold tap water( she is used to it). But I think maybe not going to install due to planning on moving into a new house of 3 toilets and bathrooms combination in 2-3 years time.
Human waste are flushed into septic tank at the backyard.
I brush and clean the toilet hand wash sink once a week. I use the same soapy water used to clean the bathroom.
Those cleaning equipment are placed in outside room bathroom. New Clorox are stored under cabinet of hand wash sink. I love Clorox of it kills 99.9% germs, save all for myself and my family!
2间一样的厕所岂能2种完全不同的方式洗，用的都是相同的洗衣粉，出自同一个人的手。还要分房间的先洗，后洗外面的。谁吃饱闲空?教我怎么做?那间厕所也是我家，哪里有卖屋子只卖厕所的，岂能割舍或舍弃。给人用过就是别人的了啊，还逼我走??他妈的羞辱!!!!抢人的东西欺负到家里来了!!!我就是不公平，更洁癖。我如何对待外人，人人有目共睹，岂是我会为了不起眼的外人舍弃自己的家庭?乱接触外人，每次在抢人的东西!!!!狂人偷霸占人家家的厕所!赶他走!!!!要偷看性器，trail, plot & accussation.木板洞大小便，狂人在下面偷看鸡白大大便硬掉。不是你的东西trail屁啊!鬼告诉你!!!不mislead你去死!!哦以便等医生接触时下狠狠的毒手，教唆医生犯罪。鬼肯，最好永远性厕所没有我这个人!!!我在家里那间小了便，用1/2汤匙的洗衣粉，小一次洗一次厕所洞!!!我一人独享洗衣粉，谁都没有好有。你想用我们家的厕所的是促使我们的家产间接或直接因为迟婚而产生了不育症问题，给我们家带来许多不必要的困扰及人间痛苦与遗憾，仇人一样，恨死，不早死都有罪，还想，休想从我这里得到任何好处，狗粪都没有啊。不要再给那些人存在在我们家了，大肆抓狂一样，要什么就什么，要怎样就怎样，好像我们家是她的一样!!!不知自己什么身份一样，男人都嫌你脏啊!!!大扫把都赶不走，厚脸皮枪都打不进，赖死等财产分一样，只有死路一条，活生生逼死他!!!一个巴掌拍不响，倘若拍得又响又亮，巴狐狸精一样响亮!!!贱妇人money face!!!不应许他们的存在，他们都不曾存在过，否则我会灭亡。不懂什么东西肮脏，别人的肮脏也有，什么肮脏也有，一直不停的困扰着我的头脑，企图干扰，影响我的头脑及思想。请停止再以肮脏，鬼怪等的东西骚扰我，纠缠我。仗鸡白大，极力否认世界上没有不公平，不甘心的待遇，只有一意味永无止境的夺去及勒索他人财产，你觉得可以实行吗？仗什么就什么死掉！！！！犹如欺负不育症的家庭那样，强迫当事人交出所有财产，忘记了世界上还有外人比如慈善及孤儿院的孤儿的存在，因此，因为神经病一样，搞错人一样神志不清，不停的的纠缠一个外人，别的女人，要人替她造的孽承担后果，有报应，几乎到达忘记自己是谁的程度，自己有孩子有其他人的人不懂珍惜，白痴一样，装聋扮傻，自己的家有命案犯法。自己怎么可能完全不知道，还丝毫没有被影响到？世界都与人不同了，明人眼中一目了然。还装无辜，不懂哪里得罪人，以至孩子被杀死光，猪一样卖到光一样才来后悔是没有用的！！！！！因为，谁帮谁死。若要人不知，除非己莫为。理应不该再见到别的女人，以免受到莫大的刺激及必须承受罪！！！！败类，见到人如见到财神爷一样，千方百计接近，狂妄的程度到六亲不认，底裤都被抢掉，更何况是肉眼看不到的东西！！！应该预防及避免此社会败类接近我跟我的孩子！！！！！倘若没有见到面，根本无法伤害我一根毛发。见面就输，跟割舍一样令人怨恨！！恨之入骨，入心，入肺！！！做人要积德，比如终有一天，把全部的财产捐赠于癞蛤蟆地方除了7哩的慈善机构，因为对自己的亲骨肉造孽太重，不配拥有。但，那个不会是我，否则没有人敢接近。积德积够了！！！！作慈善也有停止的一天，不以人道处死不是人！！！！肉体造的孽，应该舍弃财物受损撇一边不谈，以肉体承担后果，才像是个人！！否则犹如禽兽一样活着，人也不知道的动物！！！！还以为自己是清高公主啊！！！毒心老妇蛇蝎心肠，生人勿近！！！！别扭啊！！！！！讲钱伤感情，事缘钱财纠纷!!!!除非永远只字不提及钱财!!
Mopping the floor
Fill up half pail of water with 1/4 cups of Dettol or other types of floor cleaner. This is a way to save due to daily usage requires a large amount of floor cleaner. I learn this during my part-time job at a restaurant years ago before I become a housewife. Then mop the floor with a mop. You may mop the floor of the same area twice for a more clean effect, even doorsteps. I tried to mop the floor this way everyday especially when my child is small and likes to play on the floor. But sometimes I find it too tiring to do so, so I change to mop the floor once every 3 days or so. For a half cup full of floor cleaner with half pail of water just like the directions on how to use floor cleaner to mop the floor are to be used once a week for floor cleanliness. But I do that twice a week too. After mopping, the remaining dirty and cloudy water are poured into toilet bowls of outside room toilet. Kitchen is an oily place, it should be mop last or use a different mixture or even washing powder water, haha...(Of nothing out of nothing at all, not even disposable dirty water, but of own dirt, reaching no compromise or no affray, meaning dirty water after mopping floor with visitors are flushed inside toilet bowl, but fear of disturbance towards waste and discharged, thus possessing harm by approaching child in many ways and form, yet could not be release from the tank which will be pump out by MBKS fearing that causing unneccessity harm to others inducing revenge. OF NOTHING, not even floor cleaner, MBKS, water or whatever. But how?要你永不见天日，永世没法伸冤!!什么人体的排泄物，秽物，毛发都要令人厌烦，还企图影响孩子的人奶，奶汁只要有sink或厕所就有一点，给屋子的。god，烦死了!!!!). Dirty floor mixture on normal days should be poured in the drain backyard. In certain times like bird flu, J.E, SARS, hand-foot-mouth disease, even HIV AIDS and so on, I shall use as directed on how to sanitize our home or use Clorox.读书时爱什么滋?Clorox洗白衣，久久洗一次，洗掉爱❤滋病!!!mat cho水一样。
The mop should be soak in half tablespoon of water then rinse with water till no more soapy water, exposed outside the sun to get dried and cleaned before next usage.
P/s outside room toilet and floor are to be clean and mop using inappropriate amount of Clorox Lemon added into half pail of water once in a blue moon especially on every Sunday, after visitors left or during weekdays especially Tuesday or first wet cleaning of the week for whole house and master bedroom bathroom excluding outside room toilet. At usual times, the outside room toilet are cleaned too,but should be hatefully and emotionally. Both toilet and floor are antibacterial protected.
Cleaning the car park compound
Mix a pail of water with 1 tablespoon of Biozip and pour it on the car park floor. Brush it with a hard broom. Use the water hose to clean away the soapy water. This could be done once every 3 months or once a year?
At the meantime, often clean the car park area with a broom for dead insects, dried leaves, dust, dirt and so on. The same to the backyard area which are covered with cement.
Cleaning the sofa
Due to the material of sofa not all cleaning detergent suits in cleaning the surface of the sofa. I have tried using Dettol cleaning spray. However, I fear that it might ruin the new set of leather sofa. So, I just use a wet cloth and wipe over the surface and side area. I do the same to the sofa bed made of cloth like soft material. This is to be done also once a week or whenever you feel free to do so.
Changing mattress sheet
I change the master bed room's mattress sheet whenever it starts to smells. I did the same to my child's baby cot too. For example the pillow case, mattress sheet and so on.
Mattress cover bought at Parkson could also be washed.
How to wash clothes with a washing machine?
Sometimes I add on 1 tablespoon of Biozip onto 1 cup of antibacterial Dynamo or Breeze in form of liquid detergent onto full wash. This is to prevent wastage. If you like, you may use only Biozip with 3 1/2 tablespoon of powder detergent for full wash. Add in few drops of holy water if possible. Add on Softlan if you prefer your clothing softer and more fragrant. But I skip that step so as to save for other purposes. Soaking is an addition if you like your clothes more clean especially those washing machine that comes with a soaking selection.
Bras are to be put into a bra net before putting inside the washing machine together with other clothes. For bra with steel either wash in a net or use hand. I find that the steel poke out from the sides of my bra if prolonged time using machine washed. So I use hand wash ever since. For panties should be hand wash, but since it is not of period stain or of discharge like during teenage years, I just drop it inside the washing machine together with the other clothes, but in the bra net or of clothing net so that it won't get loose easily. Can scrub panties with washing powder then place it with the other clothes to wash in the washing machine.
My clothes are fully hand washed before my house has a washing machine. This is done using Fab soap or soaking dirty clothes in water filled with powder detergent and later brush before rinsing.
我洗的衣服都不会很香的，即使放了softlan。大概是得把衣物在洗衣机hold着浸你所需要的时间，除非有soak button，但那大概得浸1小时。我觉得浸半小时什么的就可以了，或者更久更好，更清洁，但首次参了dynamo的水就会肮脏了咯！浸了会有肮脏都跑出来啦！不过，浸过的话比较臭。那样再放softlan在last rinse时洗出来的衣物那些会比较香。而且，用softlan的话，最好也是浸个半小时什么的，这样会比较香。我们家里是用antibacterial的dynamo液体状洗衣服！虽然偶尔也有用其他比如breeze那些，不过没有antibacterial。
Wipe dried eating utensils
All of the eating utensils should be wipe with clothes before kept in the drawers.
How to wash the dishes?
By using just a few drops of Cosway dish drop is enough for dish washing. I squeeze out the water from the sponge and leave the bowl used to put dish drop mixture dried so that bacteria shall not spread during the night. Before I start to wash the dishes, I rinse the plate with clean water first before applying dish drops. Then, rinse it off with clean water.
We have 2 sink, the one at the cooking area, and 1 at another kitchen space. My husband calls it a dry and wet kitchen. Mostly the dish washing were done by him at the dry kitchen. Zip powder are to be used to scrub wok and pot.
Before the plates, bowls and etc are placed in the sink to wash, the excess liquid is removed and leftover are thrown in the rubbish bin.
Sweeping the floor
I sweep the floor almost every day with a broom. My husband vacuum the floor once a week.
Vacuum the floor
My husband vacuum the floor with the vacuum cleaner (and cooks home drinking water). I am not very good at handling this. I prefer sweeping.
He too enjoys vacuuming the top of cupboard, edge of leather sofa, room corner, under bed, sofa or cupboard and etc.
Folding the clothes
I fold clothes of my family everyday and keep it in the drawer and wardrobe. I fold clothes in the room or at the living room, on the bed or on the cleaned floor.
Basket used to collect clothes.
Tidy up bed after wake up
After wake up from sleep I fold my own blanket, as my husband needless blanket. Then tidy the bed by ensuring that the mattress is neat with no wrinkles and arranged the pillow to it's place.
Cooking
For holidays, weekends and celebration or occasion, I prepared meals for my family often of special dishes despite of daily meals just like my mother. Daily meals now too consist of fancy lunch or dinner if compare to daily meals, not of festival celebrations. During weekends, either cook myself but very seldom or eat outside.
For lunch, it is either me or my mother that cooks for my husband is not around. Or I am the one cooking.
Left over rice are to be kept in a container in the fridge for reheating purpose the next day.
Stove cleaning with a wet clothes, or with a few drops of dish cleaning liquid around the stove and even walls behind, plus the whole food preparing area is done after lunch, dinner or doing the dish washing. Sometimes, back door are open while cooking.
Evil spirit cause disruption in daily activities through take over everything with eyes as if own, especially those used to make cash such as mopping pail, brush, cooking utensils and etc. Be careful with all your belongings. As for a working woman, it is dangerous for the evil spirit sell body of a male.
The dining table are to be wipe with wet clothes after eating. Pelapis meja of 6 pieces are placed on the table depending on usage.
Looking after my child
Our daily weekdays activities: Morning milking time is at 9am. My child woke up from about 9.30am or late to play toys or watched television. Then bath (she bathes in the bathroom inside master bedroom) then eat after 12pm including taking sufficient fruits and vitamins, sometimes even snack or sweets. After that, she drinks milk again at 2.30pm or 3pm, thus either take a nap or study, learn ABC,123, coloring, writing, talking, story reading, recognizing new words, playing with my handphone browsing the videos taken from Kidszoonia (her favorite) or other images including watching Youtube videos like Mickey, Hello Kitty, ABC phonic songs, and many more and brainstorming. Soon, she continues having pleasure time if not taking an afternoon nap. It is inappropriate for children to watch television and play with the handphone all the time, fear of affecting eye vision.
Bath again at 4.30pm before father comes home and take dinner at around 5.00pm onward. Night time she spends her time with her father while watching television or playing around with toys. After drinking milk at 8pm and 12pm or earlier, she sleeps at 12pm, in the baby cot at her father's bed side.
Saturday and Sunday and holidays rest including when her father on leave at home, no more studies for she is only 3 years old. I fear of giving too much pressure in her, yet based on my planning is to ease and reduce her pressure from school or home, even from the society with ability to divide time.
As a full-time mother, there is no holiday at all, for all my time is spent with my child, despite of fall sick like fever, cough, running nose, needless to do household chores, taking care of my child. In other words, is a mother of 24 hours, whom is always there there when she needed me to be there, caring, loving, understanding, nurturing, cultivate, pays money, being under surveillance, guide a child in a proper and own way, spoils, protects and permits a child having interaction with other kids, responsible for all her behavior or wrongdoings and ensure corrective actions taken through draw lessons, mother's talk or punishment, although there were times I am furious at her but have no choice. A full-time mother pleased her husband not engaging in many men activity, different from a working woman but at own risk. It could be at work or public places like a shop.
I bathed twice a day. However, I should bath 3 times a day if not wanting to be abandoned, smelly and sick.
*If I am traveling with my husband during holidays or on a vacation, meaning not in Kuching or Kota Samarahan, perhaps Kuala Lumpur, I surely will bring her along too. I too imagined gone traveling alone by flight and leave Kuching, but seems impossible due to personal health reasons and my family might not allow me to do so. Even if I am not around, I am still with her for she is my responsibility and dutybut through unseen forces, haha.... If you believe in god almighty or unseen forces!*
Kota Samarahan is my territorial now, where my home with family is situated including Muara Tuang's house which is open for tuition by my mother for over 10 years now. Kuching city is too a kind of provincial, for my mother's home is located there.
我毕竟是个女人，还是全职妈妈或太太。女人不管有职业与否，虽容易对付，但也不好惹。家里也有女人的不怕被人以同样方式对付?我不可以对我的丈夫以外的男性做任何我尽妻子的责任的事，包括煮饭做菜，家务，照顾小孩等。我只为了我的家庭任劳任怨，没有怨言，完全与其他不相干的人无关。无可否认，我的确因为没有煮过食物给其他男性吃，比如前男友等，只煮过给我的丈夫，较好欺负。没有发生过性关系的男性不应该吃我做的饭，除非与男男女女大伙儿，因为我会更加备的被欺负。我也很没办法，不是自私，不过从前确实没有组织家庭式，生活化的缘分，也不懂烹饪，现在除了有孩子的男性，否则哪里甘心吃我有生育问题的饭?不要逼我或占我便宜!贪图我们家产的人凭什么认为卖身给我我就要，还有任何争夺多少巴仙财产的机会!我现在直接说是零机会。
要我的金，溺毙死掉才来讲，我不浸个5-10分钟足以溺毙一个人的时间，我不甘心啊，白白抢我的金饰!!!看到就用抢啊?聪明的话就用娶!!!来得到!!!!这间屋子，短住几年，胎盘怎么会选择埋在这里?要埋在999屋锲哪里。
I hardly do household chores when I was studying. So, I am the kind of a lazy bone. Since I become a housewife, I have to start to motivate myself to do household at our new home everyday, not just cooking and looking after my child only. I must train my daughter to cook, do household chores as well as being independent as early as the age of 7, or 13,14 to learn cooking.
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How to clean the toilet?
Put on a pair of slippers. First, fill up a small pail of water with 1 tablespoon of washing detergent in powder foam like Biozip that I use because of the antibacterial agent. Then use a brush and dip it inside the pail to brush around the sink (every Sunday or once a week), toilet bowl, rim and so on. Brush every inches of the toilet bowl with soapy water. Then pour the remaining soapy water on the toilet floor and use a hard toilet broom to brush the toilet floor until clean. Clean every soapy area with clean water. Pour 1/2 tablespoon of Biozip into the toilet bowl and clean around it using a toilet bowl brush.
For more stubborn stains for example when your house have visitors during a party or Chinese New Year clean it with Harpic or Clorox instead. Continue doing this with the 2nd toilet or bathroom. Toilet are to be cleaned everyday. I have 2 bathroom and toilet combination at my house. One is inside master bedroom and another near the kitchen. It is yet to install water heater for my daughter bathing purpose while my mother bathes using cold tap water( she is used to it). But I think maybe not going to install due to planning on moving into a new house of 3 toilets and bathrooms combination in 2-3 years time.
Human waste are flushed into septic tank at the backyard.
I brush and clean the toilet hand wash sink once a week. I use the same soapy water used to clean the bathroom.
Those cleaning equipment are placed in outside room bathroom. New Clorox are stored under cabinet of hand wash sink. I love Clorox of it kills 99.9% germs, save all for myself and my family!
Mopping the floor
Fill up half pail of water with 1/4 cups of Dettol or other types of floor cleaner. This is a way to save due to daily usage requires a large amount of floor cleaner. I learn this during my part-time job at a restaurant years ago before I become a housewife. Then mop the floor with a mop. You may mop the floor of the same area twice for a more clean effect, even doorsteps. I tried to mop the floor this way everyday especially when my child is small and likes to play on the floor. But sometimes I find it too tiring to do so, so I change to mop the floor once every 3 days or so. For a half cup full of floor cleaner with half pail of water just like the directions on how to use floor cleaner to mop the floor are to be used once a week for floor cleanliness. But I do that twice a week too. After mopping, the remaining dirty and cloudy water are poured into toilet bowls of outside room toilet. Kitchen is an oily place, it should be mop last or use a different mixture or even washing powder water, haha...
The mop should be soak in half tablespoon of water then rinse with water till no more soapy water, exposed outside the sun to get dried and cleaned before next usage.
P/s outside room toilet and floor are to be clean and mop using inappropriate amount of Clorox Lemon added into half pail of water once in a blue moon especially on every Sunday, after visitors left or during weekdays especially Tuesday or first wet cleaning of the week for whole house and master bedroom bathroom excluding outside room toilet. At usual times, the outside room toilet are cleaned too,
Cleaning the car park compound
Mix a pail of water with 1 tablespoon of Biozip and pour it on the car park floor. Brush it with a hard broom. Use the water hose to clean away the soapy water. This could be done once every 3 months or once a year?
At the meantime, often clean the car park area with a broom for dead insects, dried leaves, dust, dirt and so on. The same to the backyard area which are covered with cement.
Cleaning the sofa
Due to the material of sofa not all cleaning detergent suits in cleaning the surface of the sofa. I have tried using Dettol cleaning spray. However, I fear that it might ruin the new set of leather sofa. So, I just use a wet cloth and wipe over the surface and side area. I do the same to the sofa bed made of cloth like soft material. This is to be done also once a week or whenever you feel free to do so.
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Changing mattress sheet
I change the master bed room's mattress sheet whenever it starts to smells. I did the same to my child's baby cot too. For example the pillow case, mattress sheet and so on.
Mattress cover bought at Parkson could also be washed.
How to wash clothes with a washing machine?
Sometimes I add on 1 tablespoon of Biozip onto 1 cup of antibacterial Dynamo or Breeze in form of liquid detergent onto full wash. This is to prevent wastage. If you like, you may use only Biozip with 3 1/2 tablespoon of powder detergent for full wash. Add in few drops of holy water if possible. Add on Softlan if you prefer your clothing softer and more fragrant. But I skip that step so as to save for other purposes. Soaking is an addition if you like your clothes more clean especially those washing machine that comes with a soaking selection.
Bras are to be put into a bra net before putting inside the washing machine together with other clothes. For bra with steel either wash in a net or use hand. I find that the steel poke out from the sides of my bra if prolonged time using machine washed. So I use hand wash ever since. For panties should be hand wash, but since it is not of period stain or of discharge like during teenage years, I just drop it inside the washing machine together with the other clothes, but in the bra net or of clothing net so that it won't get loose easily. Can scrub panties with washing powder then place it with the other clothes to wash in the washing machine.
My clothes are fully hand washed before my house has a washing machine. This is done using Fab soap or soaking dirty clothes in water filled with powder detergent and later brush before rinsing.
我洗的衣服都不会很香的，即使放了softlan。大概是得把衣物在洗衣机hold着浸你所需要的时间，除非有soak button，但那大概得浸1小时。我觉得浸半小时什么的就可以了，或者更久更好，更清洁，但首次参了dynamo的水就会肮脏了咯！浸了会有肮脏都跑出来啦！不过，浸过的话比较臭。那样再放softlan在last rinse时洗出来的衣物那些会比较香。而且，用softlan的话，最好也是浸个半小时什么的，这样会比较香。我们家里是用antibacterial的dynamo液体状洗衣服！虽然偶尔也有用其他比如breeze那些，不过没有antibacterial。
Wipe dried eating utensils
All of the eating utensils should be wipe with clothes before kept in the drawers.
How to wash the dishes?
We have 2 sink, the one at the cooking area, and 1 at another kitchen space. My husband calls it a dry and wet kitchen. Mostly the dish washing were done by him at the dry kitchen. Zip powder are to be used to scrub wok and pot.
Before the plates, bowls and etc are placed in the sink to wash, the excess liquid is removed and leftover are thrown in the rubbish bin.
Sweeping the floor
I sweep the floor almost every day with a broom. My husband vacuum the floor once a week.
Vacuum the floor
He too enjoys vacuuming the top of cupboard, edge of leather sofa, room corner, under bed, sofa or cupboard and etc.
Folding the clothes
I fold clothes of my family everyday and keep it in the drawer and wardrobe. I fold clothes in the room or at the living room, on the bed or on the cleaned floor.
Tidy up bed after wake up
After wake up from sleep I fold my own blanket, as my husband needless blanket. Then tidy the bed by ensuring that the mattress is neat with no wrinkles and arranged the pillow to it's place.
Cooking
For holidays, weekends and celebration or occasion, I prepared meals for my family often of special dishes despite of daily meals just like my mother. Daily meals now too consist of fancy lunch or dinner if compare to daily meals, not of festival celebrations. During weekends, either cook myself but very seldom or eat outside.
For lunch, it is either me or my mother that cooks for my husband is not around. Or I am the one cooking.
Left over rice are to be kept in a container in the fridge for reheating purpose the next day.
Stove cleaning with a wet clothes, or with a few drops of dish cleaning liquid around the stove and even walls behind, plus the whole food preparing area is done after lunch, dinner or doing the dish washing. Sometimes, back door are open while cooking.
The dining table are to be wipe with wet clothes after eating. Pelapis meja of 6 pieces are placed on the table depending on usage.
Looking after my child
Our daily weekdays activities: Morning milking time is at 9am. My child woke up from about 9.30am or late to play toys or watched television. Then bath (she bathes in the bathroom inside master bedroom) then eat after 12pm including taking sufficient fruits and vitamins, sometimes even snack or sweets. After that, she drinks milk again at 2.30pm or 3pm, thus either take a nap or study, learn ABC,123, coloring, writing, talking, story reading, recognizing new words, playing with my handphone browsing the videos taken from Kidszoonia (her favorite) or other images including watching Youtube videos like Mickey, Hello Kitty, ABC phonic songs, and many more and brainstorming. Soon, she continues having pleasure time if not taking an afternoon nap. It is inappropriate for children to watch television and play with the handphone all the time, fear of affecting eye vision.
Bath again at 4.30pm before father comes home and take dinner at around 5.00pm onward. Night time she spends her time with her father while watching television or playing around with toys. After drinking milk at 8pm and 12pm or earlier, she sleeps at 12pm, in the baby cot at her father's bed side.
Saturday and Sunday and holidays rest including when her father on leave at home, no more studies for she is only 3 years old. I fear of giving too much pressure in her, yet based on my planning is to ease and reduce her pressure from school or home, even from the society with ability to divide time.
As a full-time mother, there is no holiday at all, for all my time is spent with my child, despite of fall sick like fever, cough, running nose, needless to do household chores, taking care of my child. In other words, is a mother of 24 hours, whom is always there there when she needed me to be there, caring, loving, understanding, nurturing, cultivate, pays money, being under surveillance, guide a child in a proper and own way, spoils, protects and permits a child having interaction with other kids, responsible for all her behavior or wrongdoings and ensure corrective actions taken through draw lessons, mother's talk or punishment, although there were times I am furious at her but have no choice. A full-time mother pleased her husband not engaging in many men activity, different from a working woman but at own risk. It could be at work or public places like a shop.
I bathed twice a day. However, I should bath 3 times a day if not wanting to be abandoned, smelly and sick.
*If I am traveling with my husband during holidays or on a vacation, meaning not in Kuching or Kota Samarahan, perhaps Kuala Lumpur, I surely will bring her along too. I too imagined gone traveling alone by flight and leave Kuching, but seems impossible due to personal health reasons and my family might not allow me to do so. Even if I am not around, I am still with her for she is my responsibility and duty
Kota Samarahan is my territorial now, where my home with family is situated including Muara Tuang's house which is open for tuition by my mother for over 10 years now. Kuching city is too a kind of provincial, for my mother's home is located there.
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